When we struggle with our confidence it becomes a challenge to associate with people who have lots. It’s more common to find others who have low self esteem and share your misery with them hoping their story is worse that yours but that’s the last thing you should do. Miserable people don’t want to see others succeed so the longer you can keep each other in the pot the more likely you will stay there.
If you want to make changes in your life then change who you associate with and yes that sounds so easy but is it? In today’s world we have the access to thousands of Meet up Groups all over the world so by performing a search on the internet you can type in some keywords for things if interest. It can be very surprising to find a number of folks who might live within a 30 km radius that can have similar hobbies. Now it may not be a hobby you actually want but just learning to socialize with a variety of people will open doors for you to find some very confident people who can help you build your self worth.
This may sound like a twisted tale but the road to success in any endeavor whether it be more confidence or money or relationships is never in a straight line so don’t be afraid to find many different groups of people to talk with.
If you can spend each and everyday of your life with confident, uplifting people, you will be able to build your confidence. After all, their confidence will probably rub on to you!
Be willing to help out with some of these groups as they are always looking for support. Just a word to the wise by offering to help and that is try not to get roped into doing too much. You will have to use your best judgment for that but by offering your services it at least opens the door to further conversation and support. When we feel appreciated this can move us along the path to self esteem and a confident feeling.
As you become more known in some of these groups in can lead to more social contact which is what the main goal should be.
Many of these groups have other activities that may interest you so take part in them. You may wish to form an intention to find a successful person who can give you advice on how to be more confident as well. If your are a willing student they may be quite willing to support your personal growth. This does not mean they’re going to offer you some fantastic job at a great salary.
We don’t want to assume to much or seem like a leech so just be relaxed and honest and most important to all of this is be very grateful for each little success you may encounter while on this journey to a better you. One of the universal laws is the more gratitude you will express to world the more good things will come your way. So be grateful for the ride to confidence because you may be able to show that ride to someone else.

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