We may grow in a house hold that did not empower us in any way. The negativity was overwhelming and each day was a struggle to survive. Doing so may cripple you for a lifetime if you allow it but only if you give your past this power. We all have past history which we are to learn from and mover forward in life. Understanding and forgiving will not only empower you to become stronger and more loving but also to be able to give love and strength to others who do not have your strength. This is not the strength to over power but to over come and by gaining control of your life and where you project it to be will help to build bridges so others may fallow. By forgiving the past misdeeds of our upbringing and finding joy in stepping into a new light we bring radiance and influence of the same to those around us seeking a similar vibration. See not all will embrace it so go to they who seek it and from there we can pay if foreword by helping others. As we go through life we find some who have had the greatest struggles in building their own self esteem have the most to offer others in their need for support.

We give power to those who harmed us in the past and yes the scars can run deep and still be on our bodies but with help and love you have the choice to let go and be present here and now.  What we all have is choices and by making them positive and loving it gives as great strengths that we did not know was present within us.  Choose love and kindness because this is what will be mirrored to you in return.

When we struggle with our confidence it becomes a challenge to associate with people who have lots. It’s more common to find others who have low self esteem and share your misery with them hoping their story is worse that yours but that’s the last thing you should do. Miserable people don’t want to see others succeed so the longer you can keep each other in the pot the more likely you will stay there.

If you want to make changes in your life then change who you associate with and yes that sounds so easy but is it? In today’s world we have the access to thousands of Meet up Groups all over the world so by performing a search on the internet you can type in some keywords for things if interest. It can be very surprising to find a number of folks who might live within a 30 km radius that can have similar hobbies. Now it may not be a hobby you actually want but just learning to socialize with a variety of people will open doors for you to find some very confident people who can help you build your self worth.

This may sound like a twisted tale but the road to success in any endeavor whether it be more confidence or money or relationships is never in a straight line so don’t be afraid to find many different groups of people to talk with.

If you can spend each and everyday of your life with confident, uplifting people, you will be able to build your confidence. After all, their confidence will probably rub on to you!

Be willing to help out with some of these groups as they are always looking for support. Just a word to the wise by offering to help and that is try not to get roped into doing too much. You will have to use your best judgment for that but by offering your services it at least opens the door to further conversation and support. When we feel appreciated this can move us along the path to self esteem and a confident feeling.

As you become more known in some of these groups in can lead to more social contact which is what the main goal should be.

Many of these groups have other activities that may interest you so take part in them. You may wish to form an intention to find a successful person who can give you advice on how to be more confident as well. If your are a willing student they may be quite willing to support your personal growth. This does not mean they’re going to offer you some fantastic job at a great salary.

We don’t want to assume to much or seem like a leech so just be relaxed and honest and most important to all of this is be very grateful for each little success you may encounter while on this journey to a better you. One of the universal laws is the more gratitude you will express to world the more good things will come your way. So be grateful for the ride to confidence because you may be able to show that ride to someone else.